

Tightening My Chastity Belt: My Sixth Month into Celibacy.
If you were to have snuck inside my head just a few months ago, you might have overheard me hatching plan to return to indulgence, once...


Something to Celebrate: 3 Months of Celibacy
I am popping the champagne... No... I haven't gotten engaged or a promotion at work (not yet, anyways;) But unlike any romantic...


Trying on Celibacy for a Change
My voice of reason, my sister, suggested the book, “The Wait: A Powerful Practice for Finding the Love of Your Life and the Life you...


Lessons from the Dating Battle Field
I now approach dating like a warrior going into a fight: I'm on watchful guard for suspicious moves; I don an armor to keep my head and...


Ghosting in Dating: Why it happens and how to stop it happening to you!
“I ain’t friad of no ghost!” No, that’s a lie ... They scare the bejeezus out of me! Wait ... I’m not talking about the holographic...


Almost Thirty-Six and still Single
“So, you have found a nice gentleman as yet?” asked my Aunt Grace, as she held my hand and looked at me with the anticipating delight of...


Top 10 awkward moments of being a "never-married-no-kids" woman
It happened without me noticing. I had inhaled society’s stories of marriage and babies that implicitly and explicitly pervade everyday...


The Lost Ark of Honouring Women in the Land of Dating
I love watching old movies. The tentative ways a man would initiate a courtship with a lady: a shy glance in her direction, a bow and a...